HOW TO Recognize Our Attachments and the Means We Must Use to fight Them
By Father Anselm Longpre
I. Signs of Attachments to Riches
1. Solicitude, preoccupation, hurry in order to acquire them: “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will seat (or drink), or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?” Mt. 6:25.
2. Fear to lack something: “He said to them, ‘When I sent you forth without a money bag or a sack or sandals, were you in need of anything?’ ‘No, nothing,’ they replied.”
3. To worry much about the future: Lk. 22:35. “But seek ye first the kingdom of God and His Justice, and all these things shall be added to you. Lk. 12:31.
4. To desire luxury, in one’s home, one’s living quarters, one’s furniture, one’s means of transportation, at table, etc. “For here we have no lasting city, but we seek the one that is to come.” Heb. 13:14.
5. Never to be happy or satisfied with what one has: ‘If we have food and clothing, we shall be content with that. Those who want to be rich are falling into temptation and into a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires, which plunge them into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is the root of all evils, and some people in their desire for it have strayed from the faith and have pierced themselves with many pains.” I Tim. 6:8-10.
6. To envy the rich: “Tell the rich in the present age not to be proud and not to rely on so uncertain a thing as wealth but rather on God . . . “ I Tim. 6:17.
7. To act in a covetous way and to hold to what one has: Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, . . . But store up treasures in heaven.” Mt. 6:19-20.
8. To grumble in making alms: ”But when you give alms, do not let your left hand know what your right is doing . . . “ t. 6:3.
9. To have esteem and consideration for the rich and little care for the poor: “But woe to you who are rich, . . . But woe to you who are filled now.” “Blessed are the poor in spirit” Lk. 6:24-25 and Mt. 5:3.
10. Not to count upon riches in the apostolate: “ Not to rely on so uncertain a thing as wealth but rather on God.” I Tim. 6:;17.
How to fight against attachment to riches?
1. To be happy with what is necessary and truly useful, in one’s lodging, furniture, food, clothing, etc.
2. To be happy with what one has and to thank God for what He gives us.
3. To accept joyfully sometimes to lack what is necessary.
4. Never to complain of the inconveniences of poverty.
5. Not to become attached to what we have or what is given us to use: our room, books, clothing, means of transportation, etc.
6. Not to weep over losses.
7. To give generously according to our means.
8. To accept sometimes to give our services free of charge.
9. To love and to visit the poor.
10. To take care of and use with economy those things we have to use.
11. Adopt the way of life of ordinary people.
12. Moderation in the use of modern conveniences.
13. Avoid getting mixed up in temporal matters and speculation as much as possible.
II. SIGNS OF ATTACHMENT TO BODILY GOODS
HEALTH – REST – SATISFACTIONS – COMFORT
1. Fear of getting tired, of becoming sick, of doing too much, of dying.
2. Preoccupation about one’s body: food, clothing, rest, comforts, pleasures, satisfactions.
3. To seek out that which delights the taste buds, sight, the ear, the senses of smell and touch: exquisite food, liqueurs, delicacies, music, perfumes, etc.
4. A constant effort to obtain that which is most comfortable in one’s living quarters, in one’s clothing, in travel.
5. Laziness, wasting time, little application at work.
6. Immodesty in looks, in touch, in one’s bearing and in encounters with others.
7. Complacency in certain delectations that one would like to have, without however, going beyond certain limits.
8. Familiarities which provoke sexual emotions.
9. Rest, sleep, recreations, days off, vacations sought out and prolonged longer than is really necessary.
10. The fear of the least suffering, the least privation.
11. Annoyance and discontent when the body is deprived of something.
12. Murmuring and sadness in sickness or in poverty.
HOW TO FIGHT AGAINST ATTACHMENT TO BODILY GOODS ?
a) remove any exterior adornment which is affected, worldly;
b) avoid in clothing that which is luxurious, elegant, studied effeminate;
c) give the body simply the ordinary care that necessity, decorum, and decency require;
d) do not use delicate silky things common in worldly circles. “Make not provision for the flesh in its concupiscences” Rom. 13:14.
a) keep modesty, in looks, in hearing, in conversations;
b) fight all sensuality in senses of sight, bearing and touch;
c) give up tender and sensitive friendships
I. SIGNS OF ATTACHMENT TO ONE’S OWN JUDGMENT
HOW TO FIGHT ABAINST ATTACHMENT TO ONE’S OWN JUDGMENT?
a) Desire of esteem by desire of contempt.
b) Attachment to your own ideas, by considering the well-founded ideas of others.
c) Stubbornness by open-mindedness.
d) The spirit of independence by the spirit of submission.
e) Impatience by patience when opposed knowing that God’s will is in this opposition.
f) Stratagems by simplicity.
g) G. Rashness by the prudent seeking of advice.
h) Touchiness by humble acceptance of remarks.
i) Arrogance by humble speech and a humble tone of voice.
j) Ostentation by learning to silence what need not be said.
k) Disobedience by obedience and respect for superiors.
l) A habit of criticism by the habit of speaking well of others and their enterprises.
m) Love of novelty by a return to Tradition and age-old truth.